Relationship Tips Save your Relationship – Avoid to break up!

Tag Archives: Cheating

How To Deal With Your Partner’s Infidelity

cheaterDeal With Partner’s Infidelity

If you’re a local man dating a local woman, and things have been going well for a while, you might feel so happy that it’s as if you’re floating through life on some sort of benevolent cloud. However, as it goes, every happy ride is bound to come to an end sometime, and this might come in the form of finding out that your partner has been cheating on you. This can be an absolutely crushing blow to a man’s ego. When we are with a woman in a serious relationship, we feel pride in knowing that our woman is completely ours, and that no other man in the world can make a legitimate claim to her. However, as it turns out, any man can endeavor to make an illegitimate claim to your woman, and if she is a cheating scumbag, she might accept his advances. She might even form a casual affair relationship with this outside entity, and she may be engaging in sex with this person over and over again. How exactly are you supposed to deal with something like this. Well, this is a truly troubling matter, and by no means do we have an easy solution for you. Being cheated on by the woman you love is a truly atrocious thing for a man to go through, and time is the only thing that will be able to heal you fully. To help you get over this unfortunate experience, we’ve written a few thoughts on the matter. We really hope it helps.

Online Hookup Platforms Make It Easy To Catch Your Partner Cheating

If you met your woman on an online hookup platform, then chances are that you caught her cheating by seeing if she still uses that platform while in your relationship. While online dating websites are great places for singles to hook up and have sex, the unfortunate fact of the matter is that they’re also the perfect place for cheaters to have an affair with someone outside the relationship. Even if you didn’t meet your woman online, she might still have gravitated toward that medium to find a cheating partner.

Their One Night Stand — How To Deal With Your Romantic Partner’s Affair

If you did discover that your romantic partner had an affair in which she engaged in a one night stand with someone else, you certainly have a rough road ahead of you. If you’re thinking of trying to patch up the relationship after this event has occurred, we highly advise against you doing so. Although you might feel a certain sense of attachment to this person, the fact is that she felt disconnected enough from you to make love to another man. If the statistics are correct, a person who has been caught cheating once will likely to endeavor to cheat again in the future. It might not be right away; it might take weeks, months, or years, but eventually, chances are that she will cheat on you again, and you’ll be right back in this sad position that you’re in now. Our most important piece of advice is not to settle for a relationship with a cheater. There are countless women out there that are waiting for you to give them a shot. Maybe you can go on the adult dating platforms and see if you can find a few rebound girls to help you get over your cheating ex. Once you’ve gotten that out of your system and you’re ready to pursue something serious again, we think that you should definitely go for it. The most unfortunate thing that could happen from being cheated on is you closing your heart to every girl you will ever meet in the future. Be open to the possibility that true love exists in the world, and know that you will indeed love and be loved again.

Their Infidelity Is Not The End Of The World

Although there is no pain quite like the pain of a man being cheated on by a woman he loves, it’s important to realize that their infidelity is not the end of the world. Just get up and look in the mirror; you’re there, you’re alive, the cheating did not end up killing you. You still have countless opportunities ahead of you, both in love and in every other department in life. Be confident in yourself, and know that the cheating was because of her, not because of you. You are still brilliant, and you can still conquer the world if you so choose. Leave the past with the past and believe in yourself — we sure believe in you.

He Cheated, But Was It Your Fault?

We often want to believe that men are dogs. They follow their dumbsticks, wherever it may lead them. Men see a pretty/sexy girl and their tongues roll out of their mouth with drool dripping from it like a rusty old faucet. Their penis pops out like a friggin’ lightning rod. Off they go sniffing after the hottie. But lets face it girls, we drool too! We may be a tad less obvious than men. Yet, when we see a hot guy our imagination runs wild as we envision a torrid love affair. The perfect man with the perfect body fulfilling our every need and desire. And yes sometimes we chase after them like little school girls hoping they will take notice. Although men are seemingly more sex driven than women, is that the only reason they turn to cheating? I think not. Needs are not being met!

Having an affair is a huge risk for someone to take when in a committed relationship. But when fully examined, who’s fault is it? More often than not, it spawns from dissatisfaction. Yes, this can be sexual dissatisfaction but it can also be from a deficient relationship. Let’s face it we all have a tendency to show our true selves after we feel comfortable enough.

Take for instance when you first start dating a guy. You do up your hair, make-up and go to the gym 5 times a week. Everything must be perfect, from your dyed or highlighted hair to the nail polish color on your toes. Bra’s are purchased from Victoria’s Secret to push and plumb up your boobs. We shave our underarms, legs and get our pubes waxed for that tight bikini look. Every inch of our body is spot on. Our clothing is meticulously selected and fitted to flatter our body. We gaze into his eyes and laugh at his nonsensical jokes. There may even be a tendency to fake that orgasim if need be. Let’s face it, we trick him into believing he is the center of our universe.

cheating on herCheating with the Other Woman

Ok, so now some time has passed and this has developed into a real relationship…maybe (dare I say the words) you love one another. Things become more relaxed, more casual. He’ll come over to watch the game rather than go out on an intimate date. He no longer sports a suit and tie, but rather jeans and a tee shirt. Sex is during half time which leaves no time for foreplay! You in turn begin to retreat from your usual ritual of primping for this special guy. Your roots begin to show, you skip the gym here and there, you’re wearing sweats, the hair on your legs is so long you can braid it. Victoria’s Secret gives way to granny panties. Pubes look like a mini fro from the 70’s, and the sex ain’t what it use to be, fake organism or not! Can you say: YUCK?

Yes “YUCK.” Things are always going to settle into somewhat of a routine. It won’t always be hearts and flowers. So are you going to throw in the towel and let yourself go? I say “Hell No.” This is a recipe for disaster girl, and it is looming just around the corner adorning a lacy little thong.

You have taken note recently that your special guy doesn’t come around as frequently. He doesn’t call or text you at all times of the day and night. Nor does compliment you or whisper dirty little innuendos in your ear. Can you smell it because something stinks!

Your suspicions become a reality when you get that call from your best friends sister. She informs you, “I saw Richie out at the bar last night dancing with Jezabel.” “They seemed pretty tight.”

Your head swirls as your scream out: “That lying, dirty, cheating, Bastard!” But is he really? Truth be told, you are not the same girl he pined after. However fake or embellished you initially presented yourself as, that is what he needs. Time to take inventory ladies.

First question to ask yourself is: “is this relationship worth saving?” Whether the answer is yes or no you still want to avoid such a disaster in the future. Next, what has changed? Obviously your upkeep has been compromised. What else? Are you a nagger, do you have a tendency to emasculate him? Have you had an open and honest conversation about having both your needs met? Communication is key here girl, you have got to get inside his head while giving him a glimpse into yours. I have found some enlighting information on: It would be in your best interest to check this out.

Remember…if he fell for the person you portrayed yourself as…that’s what he expects. When all the fake stuff comes off will he still want you? If you answer “probably not” then be yourself up front or you will be sending him to the arms (and bedroom) of another. A guy isn’t going to buy a Mercedes with a Chevy engine inside. If you are a Chevy then be the Chevy, STOP pretending you are a Mercedes, it will only cause you heartache in the long run.