It is important to build a proper effective and positive approach to dating. You achieve this by the way you handle and maintain you and your personal relationships. This is what you should believe in. Believe in people and how they make you happy and how you keep them happy. Once you see them smile and you are the reason for that then you should truly believe that you are a successful person. You need to understand what and who makes you happy.
The concept of popularity is very narrow. One might think that popularity comes from being rich and physically attractive. We all need to change this concept completely. Popularity is something that we cultivate through our personality and how we channel this personality out into the world. Don’t think of it superficially. Read up different things; cultivate a high quality taste, music and art. Start meeting different people and connect with them accordingly. Go out into the world and reach out to different people. Learn new things from them and in turn teach them the things you know. This is how you cultivate popularity. Not by things but by your own self worth. So go out there and start connecting and networking.
Eliminating all negativity from life is a difficult process. We are filled with both negative and positive energy. Sometimes we let the negative overtake the positive. We keep dwelling over the negatives in our lives and all the failures in the past. We need to realize that failure does not exclusively come to one person only. It is part of everybody’s life. Those who are successful are able to take the negative and turn it into a positive energy. Those who constantly revisit their failures only hide in corners and develop into a shy and timid individual.
Shyness will get you nowhere. If you do not let yourself go and be bold in life, life will only pass you by and you will end up with a lot of regret at the end. Do not let anxieties and fear control your life. Be free from all negativity. It is not easy. But it is not impossible. Eliminate what is negative in your life and see the positive difference. Don’t fret and worry about the past and the future. Live in the present. You have achieved a lot and you need to focus on multiplying these achievements.